Dear you know who you are,
I cannot believe the things you said. I was shocked to the core to hear the words that came out of your mouth. If you love someone you never speak to them that way. Even if you believe the things you are saying to be true, if you know they would hurt that person they should never cross your lips. Simply keep them to yourself.
Shock was the first emotion, then came the hurt. Oh my feelings were so hurt. After that came the anger. I am good at being angry. I wanted to lash back and say mean things to you. But because I love you and your family I said nothing. I have plenty I could say but again, I chose to keep those things to myself.
After being angry I moved on to being sad. Sad at the meanness, sad at the loss of friendship, and sad for memories made that will never be made again.
Now I'm just meh. Time will heal some of it. And I've stopped thinking about it daily. Memories still come up, and I'm sure they always will. But because I've moved through all those emotions I think all will be okay. And it's truly your loss.
Goodbye.
Whoever that letter is to better have read it and know now what they have done. Hopefully they already know, but this letter is great. I love how you share your feelings. Probably because I can so easily relate. It's so easy for people to say hurtful things, have they ever tried to hold them in? It's much harder. I love you!
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